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Why will children pamper?

Parenting Tips

December 2023

Written by:Dr. Wilbert Law, an assistant professor in the psychology department at Hong Kong University of Education and a registered educational psychologist. 


How do parents react when their children coax and pamper them, ask for different things,  or play with them in a baby-like voice? Do you think children are troublesome? Or do you feel that your child is just messing around, doing nothing serious?

But why will children pamper? Research has shown that adults are particularly sensitive to the sound of pampering, so it is easier to catch their attention. It is possible that the child is pampering his parents because he needs your attention at that moment. Sometimes adults are so busy with their lives that they may neglect them, so children will pamper their parents when they see them.Another possibility is that when children are tired or feel powerless, they may pamper or   act like babies. These behaviors are very common in the growing-up stage.

How can parents respond when their children are pampering their parents? In fact, when   we understand the possibility of our children’s pampering, we know that they are not deliberately provoking parents, they can try to sit down and talk with their children to understand their needs, especially if the child is pampering because he or she is tired. We  can help them express themselves with some words. For example, ask your child, “How do you feel?” “Are you very tired?” “What can I do for you?”


Of course, you may also want to reduce your child’s pampering behavior by encouraging   them more, using age-appropriate words and behaviors, and praising and affirming them  more often. When they are pampering you, do not scold or mock them.


2023-2024 Parent-child Christmas carnival

Ding ding dong ? ding ding dong ?
Our school will hold a parent-child Christmas carnival on December 20 (Wednesday). On the day of the event, there will be a swearing-in ceremony for our uniform team, different fun Christmas stalls, and rich gifts. Sign up now! See you there ?


“Share The Joy !!”

Our school is pleased to receive a letter from Carmel Ailixin Primary School to commend our school’s graduate, Pang Hiu Yin, for her academic performance in the 2022-2023 school year, and won second place in the Excellent Academic and Character Award and Yan zi yuet The graduates were assigned to their favorite English secondary school: Pentecost Lam Han Kuang Secondary School??????.
Congratulations to Pang Hiu Yin and Yan zi yuet for shining brightly in primary school and having a happy school life???


“Surprise ! Surprise !”

Eighteen students from our school participated in the “2024 Hong Kong Children’s English Singing Competition? (Shatin District Selection)” held by Tung Wah Group of Hospitals. They won the silver medal from 20 participating kindergartens. Here, congratulations to all the award-winning students??????